Subconscious self desires

Subconscious self desires

Inner conflicts often reflect subconscious desires in dreams. Consider the following dream example from a student:

I wanted to go to one of my classmates to visit the peony flowers during the 'October 1' holiday, but I never made it. Result 'ten

After the first day of the month, I often dreamed that I would travel thousands of miles to find him. Every time I dream that I have gone through hardships and hardships to their school gate, but I don't know why I can't see him. I tried to call their dormitory, but every time he was either on a mission, or he was playing football in a large playground with many people. I just can't see him. And dreamed that he came to Beijing,

My classmate called me to tell me he had arrived, but when I rushed to pick him up, I couldn't get him.'

This student is her own intuition to understand the meaning of the 'invisible' phenomenon, she said: 'I am eager to see him, to explain to him some misunderstandings, so I always dream to find him.' But I was afraid to see him, afraid that he would not forgive me, unable to clear up these misunderstandings, so no matter how to find him in my dream, I was subconsciously afraid to see him.' This contradiction of wanting to see and fearing to see leads to the plot of dreaming to find but not to find.

A doctor opened a small clinic in the town himself, and his income was not high, and he filled in the income tax report according to the truth. That night he had this dream:

'My friend told me that the tax man doubted my reported income figures. I will be fined a large amount of money because I think I overreported and underreported to avoid paying taxes. The dream of being fined a large sum of money for tax evasion seems to be an 'anti-wish,' but it is actually a dream in disguise

His larger wish is that he 'hopes to become a famous doctor with a high income.'

A woman dreamed, 'I want to prepare dinner, but all I have is smoked salmon.' So I wanted to go shopping, but it happened to be Sunday afternoon and everything was closed, so I had to call the restaurant, but the phone was disconnected, so I finally gave up the idea of cooking dinner.'

The dream of cooking dinner repeatedly frustrated, after all, did not come true. But cooking dinner was not the woman's subconscious desire. In the process of analysis, she remembered that the day before the dream, she had visited a girlfriend, because the woman's husband often praised her girlfriend, so the woman was very jealous. When she visited her girlfriend once, she found that her girlfriend was thinner than before, and her husband was fond of busty women. The girlfriend told her that she wanted to put on more weight, and also let her (the dreamer) have the opportunity to invite her to dinner at home, because she liked to eat the food cooked by the dreamer.

The woman may be thinking to herself, 'I would rather not cook dinner than let her come to the house to eat a good meal, if she really put on weight, and her husband is not interested in her, then what should I do, well, I am not that stupid!' Therefore, the dream contains the desire not to invite the girlfriend to dinner, not to enrich her. On the other hand, the smoked salmon in the dream

It is her girlfriend's favorite dish, so the dream also contains the dreamer's 'imitation of the same effect' on the girlfriend, she replaced the girlfriend, because the girlfriend stole the favor of her husband, her heart is very eager to fight for her husband's love for her. Both of these meanings represent 'wish fulfillment.'

The failure of one wish is often a symbol of the realization of another wish. Here is the dream of a female patient. After the master of dream interpretation told her that 'a dream is the realization of a wish,' she had a dream that night in which she went to summer with her mother-in-law. But the patient was actually very reluctant to be with her mother-in-law, so the dream seemed to run counter to the theory of the master of dream interpretation. According to the master of dream interpretation, 'The patient's greatest hope is to hope that everything about me is wrong, and this dream satisfies her hope.' Because in the course of psychoanalytic treatment, the patient had denied something asserted by the master of dream interpretation, but later proved that the master was right, she unconsciously hoped that one day the master of dream interpretation would be proved wrong, and the above dream expressed her wish.

If, on impulse, we are about to do something we are not 'supposed' to do, this part warns us of a terrible outcome. For example, a student is studying hard on the one hand and wants to go skating on the other. He dreamed that if he didn't go

Skating was a waste of time, but at the time he had this dream, he was in the painful conflict of 'serious reading', the partial threat of the advantage: 'If you dare to skate, then the future career planning in the field of science will be put into water.' He believed in the dominance part of the command, that is, if he put his energy into skating, it couldn't be perfect. He's afraid that even if he gets a little excited, he's gonna go skating and he's gonna lose all that, and he's gonna be a bad skater. His important personal need for an outlet for his energy and creativity was vehemently denied. And the other part of his personality is the inferior.

But his heart said, 'I want to skate!' In his days away from the sport, the thought came up often. At night, this inferior part taunts him in dream-like ways, gliding and dancing on the ice. The inferior part represents the basic needs that are suppressed by the superior part, and it will take the initiative to resist and even satisfy itself by attacking the superior part.

Look at three sexual dreams a girl has:

Dream 1: The girl dreamed that she was walking through the hall of the house, and suddenly her head collided with the lamp stand placed in the hall, and the blood on her head suddenly came out. The girl later said: 'This has never happened to me in my real life. while

After that, my interpretation of my dream was even more thoughtful. You know, my hair was really worrying. Yesterday, my mother said to me, 'Dear boy, if that is true, your head will soon be as bald as your butt.' ''

The master explains that the head is clearly a substitute for the lower part of the body. Any object that can be stretched is a symbol of male genitalia. Therefore, the dream can be interpreted in this way: the whole dream of the hidden idea refers to the lower part of the body bleeding as a result of contact with the penis. According to the girl's further association, we can understand that it is because she has a union with a man that she will have such a dream, in addition to the above point, it is also related to her faith.

Dream 2: A girl was walking through a vineyard. As she was walking, she saw a deep hole in the ground. She knew that the hole had been made because the roots of the trees had been pulled out. When the girl told her dream, she said, 'The tree is gone.' This means that she herself did not see the tree in her dream. According to master dream interpreters, the dream also refers to a naive view of sex, that is, girls believe that they originally had the same genitals as boys, but later they were castrated, like 'the roots of the tree have been pulled out.'

Dream 3: The girl is standing in front of a desk in the drawing-room, this drawing-room is very familiar to her, so once someone touches the drawing-room

Drawer, she'll notice right away. The master interprets the dream by saying that desk drawers and all drawers resembling boxes are symbols of female genitalia. The girl knows to marry the man, or according to her own imagination, if once there is any contact with the man, then her genitals will show traces similar to the above drawer after being touched. That is to say, the girl in the heart is actually eager to contact with men, but she is afraid of being known by others and being criticized, which is the girl has always been the most worried about the most afraid of things.

The above three dreams happened to a girl at the same time, and happened in the same night, so what is the connection between them? The master of dream interpretation sums up these three dreams and believes that the main focus of these three dreams lies in the concept of 'knowing.' The girl clearly remembers that as a child she had an interest in exploring sexual matters, and she was proud of the results of her own exploration and the knowledge she gained as a result.